Communication between human beings has actually been filmed, and then studied frame by frame. It’s been found that a sort of harmony of movement takes place. So, how do you become more charismatic?

In NLP there are many techniques that will help you. But, I have found 3 techniques that will help you to be more charismatic step by step:

1. Mirroring
Simply copy what someone does, for the example, if they cross their arms, then you cross your’s.

2. Matching
If they tap their foot, you tap your finger on the back of your hand. By doing this, you’re giving the impression that you’re ‘like them’.

3. Leading
After you did the two steps above, you will be able to lead them. But you have to check first, they like you or not. You can relax in your chair and lean back, if they like you, they lean back too.

Other ways to match and then lead, under normal circumstances, would be to speak at the same rate and to use similar words, at the same time ‘feeding back’ what the other person’s saying. In this way, they’ll feel listened to. Then, you can offer a suggestion and lead them.

Related posts:

1. 3 Simple Steps of Covert Hypnosis
2. 4 Steps of Instant Street Hypnosis
3. 7 Questions of NLP Coaching Rules
4. Hypnosis Someone is Simple But not Easy
5. Do it Now, Stop Procrastinate